Importance of Self-Care During the Holiday Season

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For many people, this is a really busy and festive time of year.  Not only can it be full of plans, events and obligations, it can also be full of rich foods, spending money, more alcohol and be out of the usual routine.

On top of all that, being out of routine can lead to imbalance, overwhelm and additional strain physically, mentally and emotionally.

The personal mission I’ve adopted for myself this year is to get as many people as possible to take care of their mental health just as seriously as they take their physical health

Because there are still people who don’t believe that Mental Health Is Actually a Thing. And yes, Mental Health is a Thing.

And self-care is an important part of taking care of our ongoing mental health all year long, which helps to sustain us more effectively when things are out of routine, as they often are during the holidays.

These tips would be applicable all year-round, but a good reminder during the holidays when things can be more intense than at other times.

Here are a few things to keep in mind to take care of yourself during this time of year:

  • Get your sleep
  • Between the holiday meals, try to have healthier options.
  • Keep track of indulgences.
  • Movement.

Apple also had a feature recently mentioning some apps that could be helpful to manage during the holidays. 

Their recommendations are:

  • Sleep app: Sleep Cycle
  • Meditation apps: Calm. I also recommend Headspace and Waking Up.
  • Support & Community apps: I don’t have any specific knowledge or experience with these following apps but: Wisdo is apparently an app that allows users to share and connect with others where folks can post private and public message. And Sanvello is an app designed to help manage stress and anxiety with audio lessons created by mental health professionals based on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.

Being Careful with Alcohol Especially During the Holidays

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There can be A LOT going on during the holidays: Social events, family obligations, full schedules, financial strains, loneliness, social anxiety… and as a result: maybe overindulgence or overconsumption of too much alcohol.

According to Alcohol.org, based on so many factors during the holidays, instances of binge-drinking increase during this time of year. In the US, it is estimated that the amount of alcohol consumed doubles during the holidays.

It can be especially challenging because alcohol is a socially accepted way of celebrating and during the holidays, it’s more available than usual at office and home parties, and other social gatherings.

Speaking of office parties: Too much alcohol consumption at work- related events can lead to lapses of judgement, which can be especially problematic in a work environment. This can include unacceptable behaviours toward co-workers which can lead to fights, inappropriate, unwanted or harassing behaviours, and even termination.

Whether it is that there are people who don’t generally drink as much during the rest of year drink more and have difficulties due to lower tolerance or because there may already be a tendency toward alcohol dependence, this time of year and alcohol consumption can be challenging for many people.

Another thing to be aware of: Research has also found that in more party- like atmospheres with loud music, people have a tendency to also drink faster.

While alcohol can seem to help people to ‘loosen up’, it is a depressant. One drink might help to depress inhibitions, but too much alcohol can also lead, not only to lapses of judgement in behaviours while inebriated, it can also lower mood or may be responsible for mood difficulties the following day (depression and anxiety like symptoms).

Planning ahead of time can help to avoid potential issues:

  • This can be so hard: However, resist the pressures and the urge to drink. It can be difficult when it seems everybody else is drinking, but the more you do it, the less difficult it becomes.
  • Have an awareness of your tolerance and have a number in mind that is your limit. It can help to handwrite it on a piece of paper and carry it with you.
  • If you have a trusted person at an event with you, you can either let them know about your limit or mutually have an agreement in place to support one another.
  • If social situations are especially stressful, have a plan to take breaks from being social. It can be scoping out a quieter area of the gathering or getting some fresh air or even going for a walk around the block.
  • If you are concerned about the amount of alcohol you are drinking and/or your behaviour when drinking, I would highly recommend seeking support from your family doctor or a mental health professional.

And lastly, if you are going to be drinking at a social event, please make sure to have a designated driver or a plan in place so that drinking and driving is not an option.

More about Planning for Holiday Related Anxiety, be sure to check out Episode 18 of my podcast, Life Stuff 101.

How Sleep Impacts Overall Wellness

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Everybody needs sleep, but everybody’s sleep needs are unique and individual. And with Daylight Savings this past weekend, many of us experience disruption in sleep, even if it feels as though “we’re gaining an hour”.

First of all, I do want to mention that I do not have a specialization or specific training when it comes to sleep. But it has been a part of my own personal and professional curiosity, learning and discussions that I have about sleep and how it impacts our overall wellness.

I recently listened to a podcast where physician Zach Bush said off hand that we are all about 72 hours away from having some kind of “break, mentally” (paraphrasing) and I have had been very interested in sleep for a long time, so I spoke to psychologist and Stanford-trained sleep specialist, Dr. Yishan Xu about this very thing.

While Dr. Xu didn’t confirm timing and how severe or specific of an impact it would have mentally, she did mention that not getting sleep for consecutive nights would have negative cognitive implications.

I have an interest in entrepreneurs and their habits, and one of the themes that seem to pop up quite often is the habit of waking up early and that it is touted as something high achievers “should do”.  

While this may be a preferable way to sleep and work for some people, it can be detrimental for some people if this is not what their specific sleep needs are.  There are people who have a preference for working and going to sleep later, but the thing to keep in mind the most is the quality and quantity of sleep YOU need.

Dr. Xu also mentioned that many of us prioritize work or “getting things done”, and one of the first things to be sacrificed is sleep.  Just like eating fast food and not having movement will have negative impacts on your health, so will not getting enough sleep based on your needs.

If people are having difficulties sleeping or experiencing insomnia, it can be helpful to know that it could be due to medical or psychological reasons.  

So if there is a concern around your sleep, first consult your family doctor who may be able to diagnose whether it may be a medical issue, such as sleep apnea, or if it might be more psychological in nature, for instance stress or anxiety.

But because family doctors are not always completely well versed in sleep difficulties, it can help to ask to be referred to a sleep clinic.

If you have a relatively mild concern about your sleep quality, there are few things to keep in mind:

Caffeine intake – While we may all have an intuitive understanding of our caffeine sensitivity, it can also be helpful to know that different kinds of caffeine seems to metabolize differently AND it can also be helpful to know how yourself specifically metabolizes caffeine, while the accuracy of data provided by DNA testing can be debatable, if you’re a slow metabolizer, you may be more sensitive to effects of caffeine.

Understanding your own specific needs around sleep and to know how long of a rest would be ideal for you – While the standard “8 hours of sleep a night” is an average, the ideal amount of sleep for any given individual falls between 5 and 8 hours of sleep.

Evening and sleep environment – Blue light from our devices and TVs can be signalling to be brain that the eyes are taking in daylight and may keep you from feeling that you’re ready to get to bed. It’s good to minimize blue light after nightfall. And once in bed, it can be helpful to ensure that you have the most comfortable sleeping environment possible for you, including temperature, the comfort of your bed and trying to either control the kind of noise/sounds that would be your preference and to try to keep it as dark as possible in the room when you’re getting to sleep.

Can Video Games be Addictive?

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The video gaming industry last year was a 138.7 billion dollar industry and it’s projected to be even higher this year.

There is a difference between someone who play one, two or three hours a night or a few times a week and the person who is playing 10+hours per day and impacting work and/or school performance and attendance.

If there is a theme that we can identify in all of our discussions about mental health we’ve had here on Wellness Wednesdays, it would be that everything, there is a necessity for balance and to know what your particular personality and tendencies are.

It’s also a good thing to remember that there are so many variables that can go into someone finding themselves either playing more than reasonable or toward the end of the gaming becoming personally disruptive: That could be based on that particular individual, some people have a tendency toward of being more “all in” than others, their external circumstances, and how a particular game is designed.

For instance, some games that have a social networking component of it can be particularly powerful to an individual who may be experiencing challenges in everyday life or feeling lonely or isolated socially. 

Earlier this year, the DSM (the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) which is what mental health professionals who work diagnostically use to provide mental health diagnoses, now recognizes “Internet gaming disorder” as something that has been identified for more research.

Potentials behaviours to be aware of:

Is Gaming Getting in the Way of Responsibilities?

First and foremost, if thinking about gaming or the actual gaming itself is having an impact on work and/or school, whether it be attendance or quality of performance, that would be a warning sign. 

Do You Keep it a Secret?

If there are secret concerns you have about the amount of time that you devote to gaming or if other people, especially partners or friends, express concern with the amount of time you spend gaming, that’s also something to pay attention to.

Are You Gaming More than Spending Time with Others?

Lastly, if you find yourself consistently choosing gaming over social times or if gaming is consistently keeping you away from spending quality time with your partner or family, it may be worthwhile to pay attention to this behaviour. 

What to do if you suspect there’s a concern:

1) The first line of what can be done is to reach out and speak to someone you trust in your life.  I recently heard a quote, which goes something like, your problems are only as big as your secrets. But it is important to identify someone who you trust. 

2) Because most people are not trained to support mental and emotional challenges, it can be helpful to speak to a friend or a family member.  But there are workbooks on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy which can be helpful such as Mind Over Mood.

3) Working with a counselling or therapy professional can also be helpful.

Looking for Signs of Burn Out

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Symptoms associated with feeling or being close to feeling burned out:
Feeling a little off, tired more often than not, ambivalent, cynical and generally feeling overextended.

The term “burnout” used to be used primarily for folks working in healthcare and first responders, but more and more, it is being used to also describe the experiences of workers in general who are hyper connected, overly worked with a sense that there is a need to always be doing more.

In North America, being stressed or busy, is often glorified, which adds more to the higher possibilities of burnout.  Many of us often like to be seen as being busy with a lot going on, so it can conversely be difficult for us to talk about how it can feel difficult or challenging to be feeling this way all the time.

But as always, it’s important to also mention that while we are talking about being overly extended and/or stressed, there is a fine line which can also be a sign of a mood disorder, such as depression or anxiety. 

If feeling malaise, intensely overwhelmed or apathetic for more than a two week period, it is advised to consult a medical or mental health professional.

When it comes to approaching or feeling burned out, here are some ideas to hopefully help:

Start with Small Wins
Often the feeling of being overwhelmed is due to a sense that there’s too much, so starting and focusing on getting little things done can help with a sense of momentum and also the dopamine hits can help with starting to feel better about things.

Taking Breaks
Scheduling in small breaks on an ongoing daily or weekly basis can help with managing stress and getting to a place of feeling burnt out.  But it can be even more beneficial to get out into nature or taking technology breaks for a day or weekend, as some people do.  It can help reset the nervous system to jump back into the swing of things.

Connecting and Relating
Whether it’s with a trusted someone or some people in your life, or a helping professional, it can be helpful to just externalize all that you’re thinking about and get it outside of the closed feedback loop in your head.  Hearing it out loud and also getting other perspectives can be helpful to see what you may currently be seeing as a problem or challenge in a different way.

Finding Mental Health Support in Ontario

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Finding mental health support in Ontario can be challenging, especially because it can be quite confusing to navigate all the different options available.

There is relatively little in regards to OHIP coverage when it comes to mental health support.

When it comes to public programs, the first line of availability covered by OHIP would be your primary care physician or your family doctor — who may or may not be well versed or having training in regards to mental health support.

As a result of consulting your family doctor, they may prescribe psychopharamacological medication (which is typically the first line of treatment in the medical system) and send you on your way, or they may suggest finding a psychologist, counsellor or therapist (even though these practitioners are not covered by OHIP), OR refer you to a psychiatrist, who can diagnose mental illness and prescribe treatment, again, probably in the form of medication.

Public options also include programs available at CAMH and through hospitals, generally for specific concerns such as addictions recovery and trauma.

There are differences between psychiatrists, psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors.

Psychiatrists are part of the main medical system and covered by OHIP.  They are the only mental health professional who can subscribe medication. You require a prescription from a primary care physician, and there is usually a wait to get an appointment with a psychologist of several months. While there are a few psychiatrists whose treatment includes talk therapy, most do not.  In the event of a crisis, going to an emergency room will provide immediate access to psychiatric services, including the psychiatric unit in hospitals.

Psychologists are licensed psychologists and in Ontario, they require a PhD in psychology. To work with psychologists, the fees are paid either out-of-pocket or may be covered by extended health benefits. There are different psychologists with different specializations and may using different psychotherapeutic styles and approaches. There are other helping professionals who work under the supervision of a licensed psychologist and the fees of those individuals may be covered by insurance. For details on insurance, check specifically with your insurance provider and as to the specific category of a helping professional, check directly with the practitioner.

Those who fall under the umbrella of Psychotherapists could be credentialed in a number of ways. There are Registered Social Workers, Registered Nurses, Occupational Therapists and Registered Psychotherapists are authorized to perform therapy, but insurance overage may differ based on the benefits package.

TIPS FOR FINDING MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT IN ONTARIO

1) If you or your loved one is in distress or acute crisis, head to the closest hospital or emergency services.  There are also distress hotlines and ConnexOntario, the province’s mental health hotline. ConnexOntario can direct you through public resources, but they may not be fully versed when it comes to how the system works outside of the medical system.

2) Find the right fit for your needs. If you have a specific concern, you may wish to search out a professional who has specific experience in the area you are looking to explore. The Psychology Today Directory can be a good start. Also a new directory option here in Toronto called FirstSession.com where you can watch video profiles of therapists to get a better sense of how they are.

3) Referrals from others can be really helpful, but psychotherapy is a very personal process and doing research to see which therapists might be the best fit for you and it can be helpful to have introductory session with a few therapists can be helpful to find the best fit for you.

Learning to Fail Better

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Many of us identify as “perfectionists”, we hold ourselves to a very rigidly high standard. Or can it be that failing sucks and it sucks even more when we identify failing with ourselves being a failure?

Remember when we were first learning to walk? It’s like our failures were celebrated!

But as we get older, it ends up becoming more about expectations and less acknowledgement and recognition.  And if we happen to be high-striving individuals, we can be particularly hard on ourselves.

We can also be very black and white about our ideas about success and failure, and my hope is that if we can think about these things differently, we wouldn’t equate things not working out to failing as individuals.

For some of us, so much so, that we can become risk adverse. In which case, two things can typically happen:

  1. We dedicate a disproportionate amount of energy to make things NOT fail versus taking calculated risks to move forward or innovate.
  2. We find ourselves stuck, particularly in our day to day lives, doing the same things and not rushing the discomfort of challenging change.

In our culture and society, there is so much emphasis on success and stories of success, but we rarely celebrate the journey it takes to get to a point of success, and only point to that journey, once some level of success has been accomplished.

But we don’t often talk about or highlight the struggles in a positive or even neutral light.

Yes, it doesn’t feel good to be in a place of struggle, but we, as a culture, have a tendency to shame individuals in their struggles, as opposed to accepting that it’s actually a part of the process of learning and growing.

Some things to know about failure:

  1. We all fail or don’t always succeed or things don’t always go “right” with one go. (Sometimes supposed mistakes, end up being even more “successful” than what was originally intended: eg – Penicillin, Post-It Notes & Apple)
  2. Objectively speaking: There’s nothing specifically bad about failing or something not working out. How we feel about it or what sense we make of it is based on the often unconscious narrative we create about a situation and ourselves, the subjective opinions of others often don’t help either.
  3. Failure is actually part of the process.  Look back on the process of learning how to walk, there were so many things to figure out: our brain learning to make the connection of balance and movement, to our physiology creating the muscle memory in order to make walking second nature, there was a process to get to the eventual place of “success”.
  4. Just because something fails, it does not correspond to who you are as a person.  In other words, just because you fail, it doesn’t make you a failure.

And remember: The GOATS always talk about the importance of failing.
“I missed over 9000 shots in my career.” – Michael Jordan

To Blame or Take Responsibility: It Can Make a Difference To Make the Shift

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Crappy things happen to all of us. But we all react differently when these kinds of things inevitably happen.

And how we deal with crappy situations mentally can be the difference between getting to a solution and feeling better sooner or feeling stuck and upset for longer.

Do You Tend to Blame Others or Yourself, or Take Personal Responsibility?

When bad things happen, it makes sense for any of us to take some time to feel badly or sad or mad. If we were to break a leg, we don’t expect ourselves to be running down the street the next day.

But once the initial sharpness of the bad thing happening wears off, how do you handle it mentally?

As human beings, one of the advantages we have is that we can solve complex problems.

Our basic instincts, though, can be to default to a black and white defense mechanism: Who’s to blame? Them or me?

This can be one of many helpful questions to ask when you’re trying to solve a problem, but if it’s the only question you’re asking, it can get you stuck and feel disempowered.

There is an important caveat: This is not about excusing or minimizing the severity of a situation or excusing others for their bad behaviour.  It might not be your fault that the crappy thing happened, but it’s your responsibility to acknowledge the situation for what it is and to do something about it.

Whether it’s a situation at work, family member, friend or partner, it can feel temporarily satisfying to lay blame on someone else… even if it’s just in your own mind.

But it’s very rare that the actual problem will get solved this way.

However, from a psychological standpoint, to keep mentally spinning or cycling about who or what was at fault will keep you busy thinking about that thing or person. Often, over and over again.

You’ll likely either stay mad at the situation which will keep you stuck or because you feel it’s someone else’s fault, you can find yourself feeling as though there’s nothing you can do.

The flipside of the blame game is, even if there is someone else to blame, you might find that you’re blame yourself, too.

Either way, staying in the blame is not going to get you to moving forward or to be feeling better.

The thing that’s going to help the most in terms of feeling better about things and ultimately what will be most productive is: Taking personal responsibility.

It’s not about self blaming or taking personal fault for what happened, but it is about taking responsibility for how you’re going to deal with it and also taking into consideration what may have been your part in it, too.

What’s the Difference Between Taking Responsibility and Placing Blame:

  • Taking responsibility means to be accountable.  When we take personal responsibility it is believing that a situation is actionable.
  • To blame is not to be responsible but to find fault. Putting fault onto others or ourselves is placing judgement and often associated with being bad, which can be disempowering.

When our focus is on blame, it is all about finding someone to get. It turns focus away from what went wrong and how to keep it from going wrong again. It is judgmental and vindictive.

One way to side step the blame thing entirely is to focus on a completely different question: What choices can I personally make to deal with this situation?

Not: Who is at fault?

Tips on Taking Personal Responsibility

  1. Acknowledge what happened.
  2. Notice what questions you’re asking yourself: Is it… “Who did this?” or “Why do I always screw up?” or “Why did this happen?”
  3. Instead start retraining yourself to ask: “How am I feeling?” “What do I need to take care of myself?” and also, “What choices do I have to move forward?”
  4. Try doing one thing out of the choices that you have identified.

Will Smith, yes – that Will Smith, has a video online about the difference between blame and responsibility: Check it out here.

Relationships: Understanding & Making Them Better

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I love talking about relationships and improving relationships because it is one of the areas that I love working with clients on.

Valentine’s Day is commercial and all that, but it’s also true that it can be tough for many people because it is a specific day when many of us are thinking about relationships, it can be a challenging time for some people.

And it can be challenging for folks in different phases of relationship, as well those who are single.

Examples of some struggles may be:
• Pressures of expectations in their relationship
• Accessing how the relationship has been feeling. Perhaps there’s been increasing conflict
• Loneliness. Folks can feel lonely, even in relationship.

Often, as human beings, we like to generalize and simplify things and if we’re not conscious of it, we can find ourselves predominantly thinking in either or’s or in black and whites.

So when we think of relationships, we might think of either being in one or not being in one. Or whether it’s simply good or simply bad.

But there are different relationship phases and our experiences of the same relationship changes over time and understanding that there are different relationship phases can be helpful.

For the sake of this post, I’m going to over simplify it, but let’s break it down to these three phases:

• Being single
• Folks in new or newer relationships
• Those in more established relationships (7 years+)

I believe it’s important to talk about relationships because healthy and connected relationships are what I consider to be one of the pillars for overall mental and emotional health.

You will often hear me refer to the importance of relationships and community because it not only keeps us in check through feedback, it can be helpful to better manage stress and get support

Relationship Tips for Singles, New(er) Relationships & Established Relationships

Singles – Have a very clear sense of your own deeper values. 

By deeper values, I mean things like:
How do you resolve conflict?
How do you like to spend quality time?
Introvert or extrovert?
Shy or outgoing?
How do you like to decompress?

It’s easy to get caught up on what’s on paper or the wish list.

But it can be crucial to be clear on these values so that there’s a foundation in place for a future, more solid relationship.

New and Newer Relationships – The deeper values audit is a good thing to do for everyone. It’s especially important because in newer relationships, it can be easier to get swept up in the emotions.

But if there are any red flags, rather than to disregard them or rationalize them, this is a good time to make sure to slow down and consider their larger future impact.

While attraction and strong connection can feel really great, it unfortunately doesn’t necessarily guarantee that these qualities alone will make for a good relationship.

Established Relationships – What to expect further into relationships are not often discussed because, I imagine, it’s not as exciting as the honeymoon phase.

But it doesn’t mean that there aren’t ways to keep things interesting and new in your relationship. And it can be even more meaningful because there’s more history, foundation and experiences together to draw from

Regularly schedule together time just the two of you, whether it’s date night or regular times away together. Whether it’s a trip or a night out doing something together that’s new (trampolining anyone?) will provide opportunities to reconnect or deepen connection.

Also, be open and communicative about differences, what’s working, what’s ahead and what can be improved.

It can be valuable to set up regular times to check in about what’s going on in life and within the relationship.

Overall Tips for Understanding Relationships Better

Be Authentically Loving: When is the last time you stopped and genuinely and truly expressed love for your loved one?

Life can be overwhelming and it’s easy to find ourselves in autopilot saying “love you” as though it’s a throw-away thing to say.

If it’s possible to slow things down once a day, and let our loved ones know that we care about them in a meaningful way, it can go a long way.

BONUS POINTS for taking a moment once a day to express loving kindness to yourself! For instance: “I am kind, patient and understanding.”

Understand Your Beliefs Around Love & Relationships: I am very fortunate to work with many people, many of them men, who are invested in better understanding and improving their relationships.

Working with a therapist, counsellor or coach can help you understand how you think about love and family can really help to improve relationships. 

My genuine wish for you, today and always, is love and kindness. ?

Winter Blues & Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

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With winter having squarely arrived in our part of the world, today we are going to discuss the Winter Blues and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and a few tips to hopefully help with manage feeling the blues during this time of year.

Many of us experience a dip in mood during the winter, but there are also a subset of folks whose mood get impacted to the point where it can be considered to be Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) — which is a form of depression.

Winter Blues could be described as feeling more gloomy or sluggish, but if your level of low mood during the winter months is impacting all areas of your life, it may be Seasonal Affective Disorder.

Symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder can include two weeks or more of consistently depressed mood. Depressed mood symptoms can include sleep issues, excessively low energy and lack of motivation.

If you suspect that your level of feeling down is accompanied with a heightened feeling of helplessness, please reach out to a medical or mental health professional for personalized support.

Winter Blues

For the majority of us, once there’s less daylight there’s a mood shift to a lower gear, so to speak.

Intuitively and the general assumption is that the lack of light leads to lower moods.

But scientifically, the full cause of the Winter Blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder is not completely understood.

Many experts believe it is connected with changes in melatonin production, which is the hormone that regulates the sleep-wake cycle.

Feeling sluggish, opting to not make plans to get out and socialize, and especially when it’s cold as it’s been, we often figure out ways to avoid going outside.

At this time of year, it’s tough to sustain a good foundation for mental health, but this is when it’s especially important to keep up with a good mental wellness routine.

Tips to Manage the Winter Blues

Tip #1 – Get Exposed to Light. Get exposure to natural sunlight. Either by getting outside or by sitting by a sunny window. Even when it’s cold, we’ve had quite a few sunny days and getting that light exposure can be really helpful.

If getting outside on a regular basis is a challenge, getting one of those full spectrum light boxes or lamps for at least 30 minutes every morning can be helpful.

Some people also find a bedside dawn simulator to be beneficial. It’s an alarm clock and lamp combination which simulates sunrise which helps to wake you up gradually and in a more natural manner.

Tip #2 – Get Moving. When it’s cold and all you want to do is stay in bed, it’s hard to get motivated to get active. But exercise or even getting a brisk walk in can stave off a sense of sluggishness.

Try to make it as easy as possible to work in regular exercise by making it seamless with other daily responsibilities you may have. For instance, having it as something you do on your way or coming back from work. Or walking to get errands done.

Also, getting some exercise outdoors during the day can get you some exposure to natural light, as well as get some physical activity in!

Tip #3 – Get Connected. It’s tempting to stay at home and hibernate. But making sure to connect with friends and family is a good way to manage the winter blues.

And if you’re spending some good quality time dining with the good folks in your life, also try and make good nutritional choices and maybe refrain from alcohol, which is a depressant.

Tip #4 – Talking Can Help. I often tell my clients that talk therapy can be a resource.

And just like having a family doctor or massage therapist, it can be helpful to have a trusted counsellor or therapist whom you can reach out and consult with when needed.